Anthony And Aidan Boyanski (2004

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This memorial website was made for our special baby boys Anthony and Aidan Boyanski. Our babies were born prematurely on August 10,2004 and Anthony died on August 16,2004 and Aidan died on August 21,2004. This was the utmost hardest thing I have ever had to deal with. I tried for 8 months to get pregnant at a fertility clinic and finally in March of 2004 found out I was pregnant. We were so happy. I cried the moment I found out and I called everyone to tell them. At the end of April I found out I had hyperstimulated ovaries from the fertility medicine and I was hospitalized and got a chest tube because I had fluid on my lungs. After this I was doing pretty good and was going to return to work in May. On the day I was to return to work my mom became very ill and had to have an emergency surgery and she was in a coma for over a month. I was so scared. At this point I was very sick and vomiting all the time. My doctor said this was normal with a twin pregnancy and would go away eventually. In June I was having bad pains in my back and I went to my doctor and he told me that I pulled a muscle so he sent me home. The next day I went to my other doctor in Syracuse and he told me that I would have to get a cervical cerclage because my cervix had shrunk significantly. So June 28th I got a cerclage put in and stayed in the hospital for a week on Magnesium Sulphate to stop the labor pains. At home I felt okay at this point. Until August 6th. I awoke and I was bleeding. I was immediately scared to death and went to the hospital. There they put me on some IV's for a couple hours and then sent me home. I was still having pain and later that evening I couldn't stand it anymore and went back to the hospital and then they immediately sent me to Syracuse in an ambulance. I again was put on Magnesium Sulphate and Indomycin to stop the labor. This worked for a little while and over the weekend I received shots so the boys lungs would be stronger. On August 9th I was starting to have contractions again so they raised my Magnesium back up because they had to lower it the night before because my blood pressure dropped really low. But it was too late. Anthony was in the birth canal and they took me to have a c-section. I had the boys and didn't get to see them in the delivery room because they rushed them to the NICU. A couple hours later I seen the boys and they were so beautiful. I was so proud of my perfect but tiny baby boys. For a couple days things looked good until the day they each had a brain bleed. Anthony's was a grade 3 and Aidan's was a grade 4. It seemed like my whole world fell apart. I still would not give up on them no matter what the doctor's said. After this I hated the doctor's because everytime I would sit with my boys they would come tell me there was no chance. That is not what I wanted to hear . I was going to take my boys home with us I didn't care what the doctors said. On August 15th we found out Anthony had a perforated bowel and he had to have a drain tube put in his stomach. Everything went fine until the next morning when the doctor's called me at the Ronald Mcdonald house and told me Anthony wasn't doing well. His vital signs were falling and fluid was pouring out of his drain tube. A voice came over me and told me we were going to have to let him go. I never thought I would have to watch my boy die but how could I let him suffer. On August 16th 2004 Anthony died in my arms. I felt so empty and sad. I have never felt like this. Why would god do this to us. Make us make a decision and to lose such a perfect baby boy? As sad as it was we had to be strong for Aidan and stay with him. On August 20th we came home for Anthony's funeral and then returned to Syracuse with Aidan. When we returned the doctor's had gotten a second opinion on Aidan's brain bleed. They called us in and told us that there was no chance for him and that they wanted us to consider removing him from life support. How can this happen again. Why do we have to let both of our boys go. I wished that I would just die. We couldn't do anything to help our boys. The next day on August 21st 2004 Aidan died in my arms. I thought this all was just a bad dream and wanted to wake up. But now I realize it wasn't and both my boys are gone. The only thing that keeps us going is that we know our boys are in Heaven and we will be with them again. And the next time I hold them in my arms, I will never let them go. We love you Anthony Scott and Aidan Michael and we will never forget your sweet faces. I think of you everyday and nothing will ever replace my first babies.

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Tributes and Condolences

Merry Christmas to you boys / Mommy (Mom)
I really miss you boys so much. You're my first children and when I lost you I lost part of my heart. No one will ever fill that spot but you two. We bonded and no one could ever understand how much I miss you I will see you again boys when it's my t...

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Happy Birthday Boys / Mommy (mommy)
Today you would have been five years old. It seems impossible that you have been gone so long. My heart still hurts as much as it did the day I lost you. Although I have learned to cope with it I always miss having you here with us I can't wait until...

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WHY / Mommy (Mother)
Perhaps one day we’ll understand
Why God decided to take your hand
And lead you into Heaven above
surrounded by his tender love.

Never does a day pass by
that we don’t ask the question why?
Why did God ...

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Thinking of you Anthony and Aiden / Jenny Tavendale Mum To Ross

In Loving Memoryof Anthony & Aidan / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )

Thinking of your sons, you and your family / Cindi Tipling (part of God's family:) )

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Remembering Anthony & Aidan / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )

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On Your Angel Date / Melissa Eiler (Visitor~Daughter of Irwin & Renee Eiler )

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For your beautiful baby boys... / Denise-mom Of Angel Nathanial Pannell

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I miss you guys so much / Crystal Roberts (mommy #2 )

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Our hearts and prayers are with you. / Alisha (Angel's Mommy )

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Two precious angel Brother's xo / Emma Prince (Mummmy to Nevaeh Angel Prince-Fraser )

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just setting here and thinking / Grandma Debbie Boyanski (grandmother)

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just wishing the boys a happy b-day / Dee

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remembering / Mommy (mother)

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This memorial website was created by Crystal Boyanski on 07/27/2005.
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Memorial Candles

	Step Mommy lit a candle on 12/25/2011: "Merry Christmas baby boys! ur sister had a great xmas! wish u were here w/ us. ur mom thinks about you alot. we love u!"

	Mommy lit a candle on 12/20/2011: "Merry Christmas my babies. I miss you so much and wish you were here.love u boys"

	Step Mommy lit a candle on 10/10/2011: "Babyboys My grandpa has met you at the gates. please welcome him in lovin & open arms. i love you. tell him i love him"

	Step Mommy lit a candle on 08/21/2011: "Aidan, today is the day god had decided he needed an angel. I think about you boys nite & day. I love you and miss you!"

	Mike Dadof#39 lit a candle on 08/21/2011: "I light a candle for you Sweet Aidan! Stay close to the hearts of your dear family on this difficult day."

	Step Mommy lit a candle on 08/16/2011: "Today, Anthony, was the day everyone said goodbye. I'm waiting for my chance to say hello. I love you"

	Mommy lit a candle on 08/16/2011: "Anthony, 7 years ago today i lost you, but I will never forget u my baby boy love u"

	Step Mommy lit a candle on 08/10/2011: "Happy Birthday baby boys. I love you guys. We will meet & I'll never let you go! Your mommy loves ou and misses yo"

	Mike Dadof#39 lit a candle on 08/10/2011: "Happy Birthday Sweet Angels! Send lots of love down to your dear family today & everyday."

	Mommy And Adrianna lit a candle on 08/10/2011: "Happy Birthday Anthony and Aidan. Love and miss you both"

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